We were married in 2003, had six kids, and a lot of ups and downs!  We developed a strong relationship early on, with Bob attending many of Heather's Psychology classes and coaching certification courses before and during their marriage, and taking on leadership and management roles in his companies.  And yet, somehow, along the way, Bob developed a long-lasting pornography addiction and was unable to kick it alone until God intervened!  Our marriage was on the rocks, but through prayer and some helpful coaching, we found our way to healing, peace, and purpose. What began as mere survival became a sacred transformation—not only in our marriage, but in how we saw ourselves.

After walking through the devastation in our marriage, we found a way back—not just to each other, but to deep trust, healing, and purpose. Since we couldn't find a full coaching program that helped the couple as a whole, together, we created Armor Your Castle. This Christ-centered marriage recovery program helps couples move from pain and disconnection to clarity, peace, and lasting partnership.

We came to understand that God didn’t just want us to heal—He was calling us to rise into our true identity as a divine royal couple, created to stand together in strength, partnership, and spiritual power, to help assist other Couples to overcome this traumatic destructive force in the lives of many millions of families!  We feel called to help others who have nearly lost hope, and rally together as the divine children of God that we really are.  

Through our program, Armor Your Castle, we now help other couples break free from cycles of pain, reconnect emotionally, and rebuild their marriage with God at the center. We combine practical psychological and energy alignment tools, spiritual insight, and a trauma-informed process that honors both partners on the path to ultimate peace and prosperity.

You don’t have to stay stuck. There’s hope—and we’d be honored to walk with you while you heal and then thrive!

We understand that healing addiction and betrayal trauma takes vulnerable effort and a process that works.  As we FACED the reality within ourselves and one another, we could see exactly what steps needed to be taken to change personal identity,  our relationship, and change our home from a mere cottage into a CASTLE!  .  

🛠️ Try our free F.A.C.E.L.I.F.T. Tool — A powerful, faith-based process to release emotional burdens and reconnect with your peace and purpose.

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